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Polygamous Marriage Should Be Recognised
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No, because... REALITY OF THE SITUATION
In their "Reality of the Situation", opposition fails to point out how the unmarried men would have an "enormous" impact on society and physical and health problems of their own just because of the women. And, more than worse, they brutally absorbed into their belief that women are inferior to men and actually stated "Greater number of men would not cause huge spread of polyandry", neglecting the women as weak as to have incapability of hosting a home, when they actually stated "There are plenty strong confident women nowadays " And, hidden under the "different" headline, they actually restated their hackneyed statements of inequality, unmarried man by changing their simple repercussions a bit. More sadly, they didn't succeed in differing the attributes of both monogamy and polygamy by saying "Divorce could be a solution but there are intrinsic factors such as having to leave behind a child, economic benefits of staying married or fearing the husband that finally lead to staying married", which statement was, however, common in monogamy not just polygamy. Again they claimed "Each woman has different needs and wishes making it impossible for the man to treat them equally", but we rational people can't see any difference between the "wife" and children' wishes in monogamous family and "wives" and children' wishes in polygamous family to be treated equally. Because in both monogamy and polygamy, the wishes of everyone couldn't be sufficed, would that be right to blame a man of not treating them equally just because he didn't give everyone in the family what he or she wants? If those are really the cases the opposition doesn't want, we infer that they are compromising a very value of monogamy as well. So at the end of the day, in this argument, opposition actually restated and contradicted their former arguments which have been rebutted earlier and again just rebutted.
We agree that “it will rationally become common rather than rare which will prompt the polygamy to be spread out around more places in the world, if not drastically” stated in the 3rd affirmative point and would like to prevent it. As more wives are considered as power and pride for a man whereas a woman married to more men becomes neglected and disliked by the society and current societies of Asia, just like the Muslim world, justify polygyny rather than polyandry[1], we believe that polygyny is more common and need to point out a contradiction of the 1st refutation that polygyny does not prevail, with the 3rd point “polygyny (as is now the main prevalence in our society)”. Since polygamy would widely increase and polygyny is more common, numbers of unmarried men willing to marry yet unable to find a free wife will be an inevitable situation.Greater number of men would not cause huge spread of polyandry. Ratio of unmarried men and available women would increase which can just by few percent have enormous impacts on society and individuals having psychical and health problems.[2]
There are plenty strong confident women nowadays, but they are different from those entering polygamous marriage- strong women wouldn´t share their man. The not as pushy women feel inferior. Inferiority is caused by the inequality made by one male having the same value as more women. Each woman has different needs and wishes making it impossible for the man to treat them equally which also causes inequality on the level of the relationship between women and on the level of the relationship between man and women.Divorce could be a solution but there are intrinsic factors such as having to leave behind a child, economic benefits of staying married or fearing the husband that finally lead to staying married[3].
Recognising polygamy is a bad choice because in reality things don´t work so harmonically.